Rinanubandhan Theory part 2: Understanding Marriage, Karmic bonds and Soulmate relations astrologically

Past Experiences and Observations: Astrological Understanding on the concept of Rinanubandhan (The Karmic Bonds: Marriage, Relationships, Kids etc)



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As we Studied in previous post what actually is Rnanubandhan theory and how it is connected with every life we are part of it and how each and every relation always shows some sort of pending karmas with every relations. If we want to understand the karmic theory theory we must need to study all the factors of the bond of the past birth karmic actions that results from Karmic debts at the root of repeated lives we take in this cosmic cycle.

Numerous Karma which we are doing in day to day life is leading us in many “Rina” and this Rina further leads to Karma again. It is a two way cycle, If you have given or done something to somebody in some life, the memory of karmic actions will be stored in your Soul (Astral body) and all the memory will be attach with the soul. the person or the soul whom you had done something good or bad will be your debtor or creditor in this birth.


Based on “Karama and Rebirth In Hindu Astrology” as Explained by K.N Rao, Natal chart and rest of Divisional charts clearly shows the Bonds and linkage of the family members we are born into (D1, D9 (Spouse), D12 (Parents, Ancestors)D3(Siblings) and D7(Children’s).

For e.g 7th house/lord of the D1 and D9 Shows connectivity of both the couple and it should be examined thoroughly to see the Karmic connection between two of them, for deep connection one should analyze or Match Up-pada Lagana of both the charts to see the soul connectivity. 

For Shorter, casual flicks, Livin-Relations, one should analyze A7(Dara-pada) Arudha/Lord of both the couple charts and their relation or influence of planets on A7, It should show connectivity and sort of sexuality or sort of infatuation one have for other one or partners he or she meets.

Moreover Relationship of Both the Venus and Rahu over each other natal placement in two charts also shows the Stronger Attraction or connecting  point between two people i.e Rahu over Venus, or Venus over Rahu in any of the chart (either Husband or wife or Gf or Bf, or people of karmic attraction) shows one cannot resist each other attraction or it’s very hard for both couples to stay away from much longer period. Rahu aspects the Same sign where other person Venus is placed also shows the Same scenario of uncontrolled desire and passion for each other or strong karmic connection.

Placement and Transit of Mars and Venus over Other chart sign (Where their Mars or Venus placed) also shows where and one can meet each other, shows what is the point of attraction or what made them attract each other.transit of Mars over Venus shows when can one meet his love of life. 

5th house/Lord of the Husband and wife shows what could be their future life wrt to children’s well-being.4th House/Lord of both the charts show how they live in next house with family members; Happily or it would be a path of cactus.Because of the Runanubandham we born in a family falls in close relations, having close friendships, love other people and shares much close bonding between them.  

Below are the points explained by Rao sir based on the Padma Puran:

1) Those who have given Loans in the past life become our Relations in the present birth.

2) The Spouse, The Parents, Siblings, Relations, Servants all are born as a result of the Rinanubandhan.

3)Each one of the relations born according to the Motives of capturing karmas of the present life soon after the death. In the Present birth When he gets that motive fulfilled, after giving terrible pain, departs and leaves a karmic impression in the mind of the native.

4)He Who Lost his property through deceit in the past birth is born as the handsome and accomplished son in the present birth and after inflicting terrible pain goes away.

5) He who takes Loans from others and dies without discharging it takes his birth in that family as a father, brother, wife or friend etc. His behavior is evil. He treats everyone badly, Speaks harshly and enjoys harshly and enjoys life at the cost of others.

6) Bad Children’s behaves like an enemy, hates his parents, makes fun of them, criticizes them, after this marriage, he swindles his parents also.

7) Good children’s obeys his parents from his Childhood, after growing up he keeps remembers to look after his parents, talks sweetly to them and keep them happy always.After the death of the parents, he performs all such rituals i.e Sraddah to give them happiness even in the world to which they have departed after death.

Astrologically for understanding Runanubandham and Karmic relations between two peoplewe need to first understand the karka of planets responsible for karmic linkage and bondages i.e Venus, Rahu, Saturn and AK, Darakarka connection between two people in natal/Navamsa chart. 

Linkage of Venus of two charts with Rahu and Mars and Darakaraka planet/Lord shows our partners/wife/husband characteristics, nature and soul of the partner we are seeking from long past or we may get or influenced by it because of soul level connectivity  .

Darakarka can be any planet having lowers degree in chart i.e Sun, Moon, Mercury etc and the house Darakarka is attached with that, shows the learning and lessons connected with that, if DK is somehow afflicted by Nodes or other separative planets, it can shows the level of sufferings and lessons we may get by the Partner i.e it can be monetary, relationship and sexual lessons too.Purpose of any chara Karka  in any of the chart is to filter that house or planet characteristics in longer run for higher purpose.

Navamsa chart 7th house/lord planet has deeper says on Physical characteristics and matching between two people i.e It is possible that the planet placed in D9 7th house has some link with the Lagana and characteristics of the partner. If Mercury is placed in D9 7th house of the Husband shows wife must be having deeper skills, characteristics, colour complexion resemblance with mercurial traits. Wife might be very much skilled, communicative, stout, Having wheatish/Greyish or darkish complexion or lagana of the wife might be influenced by the Mercury.    

In Chara Karka Principals, DK Being a Lagnesh and 7th lord always be a  learning lesson for the native if he fail to understand the actual meaning of Dk is, Usually i have seen When DK is 7th lord, native usually have distorted ideas with respect to sexuality and spirituality. Native might feel difficulty to  understand what actual is relationship, either he refrained from getting intimate with the partner or he feels that the bond of marriage is very pious and very spiritual and in reverse case native is too attached with the idea of sexuality and libido, this somehow indicates level of lessons and sufferings via partnerships and other partner.

If DK Being a lagnesh native might get spiritual lessons via his partners and helps him or her to understand the true meaning of Relationship bond. Purpose of Karka is only to filter the Soul of the native in right direction to get heal or release pain of karmic bonds.

In Many of cases,  Either it is a case of Boy or girl, if AK is malefic and 7th lord too and it is retrograde, this will clearly indicates the level and pain of relationship suffering will be very much intense due to the overindulgence  in sexual relationships  or having higher libido in marriage , Usually these people have idea that the marriages and relationships are only meant for Sexual gratification of senses. If they didn’t get in one relationship, for satisfying their senses they keep on falling  in other relationships till they are not satisfied and result is numerous Disturbance in karmic energies due to many sexual relationships before and after marriage.

As per my experience, If you found someone you met  or interact with deeper emotional sharing that doesn’t means the guy or girl is your true soul mate, it is only a relation of Karmic bond and the reason being you are strongly connected with that person might be due to Sharing of Same Atma Karka, i.e Both the girl and guy having Same AK in their natal chart this clearly means connection of two souls from past lives, If Guy AK is lord of 5th house and and girl Ak is lord 7th house then the level of Bond will be very strong and if it is afflicted it can shows sufferings, if it is without affliction that can shows long lasting karmic  bond unless the debits is not fulfilled.  

True Spiritual Relationship between two people happens when the AK of any one of the person is connected with UP-pada lagana/Lord of the other one in natal chart.If Laganas of both the couple fall in each of their UL then it clearly shows both the couple are made for each other and they will understand each other in Soul level and will help in karmic uplifting of the karamas.

Multiple relationships before marriage are seen from the Strength of A7 ( Dara-pada) lord in D1 and D9 chart, If A7 is getting aspects from many planets that can shows  native might fall in number of relationship but it is not sure all the relationships will be sexual or karmic.

If A7 lord is having relationship with the 7th house or 7th lord or if  the 7th lord aspects the 7th house or UL then the motive of the marriage would be only physical or getting sexual gratification from marriage.

If A7/Lord is having mutual relation with the Arudha Lagana ( AL) – native will interact with number of people of Opposite sex but it is not sure interaction will be physically oriented unless and until  both the lords are having link with the 7th house or lord.

If A7 and UL both are somehow interconnected in D1  it clearly shows love marriage between two people but the longevity of the bond only be dependent on the strength of 2nd lord from UL in D9 and D60 chart.

Presence of 7th lord or venus in 7th house also shows getting relationships only for satisfying higher libido or   sexual gratification with the people those falling in close friend circle area.

Connection of 11th lord With A7/lord also shows Relationship with the close friend circle area those whom you get interacted via Social network, the planet which is connected with the A7 shows what sort of connection helps to get close, i.e Venus – Shows getting close with friends after parties and social communities or gathering etc.

Same-way, If we see the root cause of any relationship, In Deeper reality, any long lasting and Deep rooted relationships or Marriage relationships are a fruits/results of our good Sanchit (9th house/lord) and bad Prarabdh (6th house/lord) karmas we perform in earlier births those we take in cosmic cycle of birth system.

Based on those accumulated karmas either we enjoy (Punya karama -5th house ; kids, if 5th house is well placed or somehow connected with the 9th/9th lord) those relations or realises or suffer     (In that case Level of Karmic suffering would be seen in D30 chart and lord of 6th/8th of d1 in D30 shows the deep rooted issue and level of sufferings) on account of those relations based on good/bad deeds we had done in past.

If you had done good Karamas in past birth Marriage will be most fruitful and same result can be check in D9 (Dharamsa – Fruits of Sanchit and Dharama related to marriage and relations) and d60 (Past Karmic actions) chart too.

In D9 or D60 chart Venus (In Male charts) and Jupiter, Mars and Darakarka planet  (In Female charts) will be free from any affliction, if the relations are fruitful.

In Many of case if  Ak Is badly afflicted with nodes and somehow connected with Venus or Darakarka relationship will be intense and suffering can be indicated.

If you had done anything bad wrt to any men or women in  many of past birth, in current birth chart, 6th House and 6th lord in D1 will be most afflicted and somehow will be connected with DK/AK/UL or 2nd from UL and will always try to disturb the marriage in any way.

Whenever 6th lord make any relationship or influences the 7th house, 7th lord, UL/lord (Up-pada Lagana) or A7/lord (Darapada) in d1 chart and other marriage supporting houses natives either will face delays in the marriages,suffers or if somehow native falls in relation of love or close bonding, relationship will be like a path of cactus or level of suffering in that relationship will be intense or severe and can be soul revealing.In severe cases AK is closely influenced nodes and somehow connected with DK/Venus/UL/A7 lord.

In many of cases i have seen if AK is deeply afflicted or some way connected with Suffering  (8th lord) houses/lords/nodes or has some relation with either Venus or UL or A7 arudha it can also shows problem after getting relationship. The only Purpose of all is to realise the soul, the lesson of pasts karmic actions or realising the pending karamas and moving ahead after the pain and guilt, just to self realise  same-way one has given sufferings to the other, you also also have to go through with same pain. Karmas role is to always realise or teach the soul suffering for deeper spiritual growth in current birth.

Some souls fall on account of those suffering but some souls get transform them into new beginning of spiritual life.

This can be check in D9 chart with the strength of Ak, If Ak is deeply conjugated with Malefic planets/nodes or debilitated placed in trik Bhavas from Lagana of D9, it clearly indicates level of soul suffering will be intense and one has to suffer badly on account of past deeds and possibility is too that either native fall back in this birth unless and until he realizes the true essence of lessons , as Ak is weakly placed and debilitated too. Debellation  shows the Tamao Guna nature of the soul , means bad karmic actions in this birth.

Choice is clearly in the hands of native what he want to achieve from that suffering, rise from that or fall in that. This clearly suggests one has to pay back its karma in any form, either in this birth or in next birth if somehow native able to carry forward it to next with the blessings of Seers and divine souls.

In Broader level Good Karamas are mainly categorised in Sanchit Karamas, even though bad are also categorised in it too but level of result is quiet different. Result of Sanchit karma can come out at any time in your life when good dashas and transit supports. May be it can come in pre-marriage life or may be after post marriage life.It is purely dependent on transits of slow moving planets with dashas of 6th/8th/12th or nodes on those houses having relation with past deeds.

Case Study I: Male Chart | Female Chart – Irony in Love Life and Karmic Debt


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Analysis : Here in Both the charts Karmic Debit and Concept of Runanubandham clearly seen.  Past Birth Karmic Rina starts when Native (Male Chart) Venus Vimsottari Dasa started After November 2006 and exactly During the End of Moon Pratyantar(PD) dasha (6th lord Moon in 10th- Karmic actions of Past) Native met his karmic soul mate, Having subha Argala of Moon on A7, falling in 2nd from A7(Darapada – Shows Gf/Bf/Casual flicks/Deep infatuation etc). 

Boy Met Lady Love in his work environment  and soon after Love Affair Started in Workplace ( 7th lord from from Venus- Moon is in 10th house).Placement of A7 shows where one can meet his Love (Here A7 is in 9th house – Shows religious Places, Holy shrines, Religious institutes, Educational institutes).

Exactly Native met his Lady love in an Educational institute and the bond of the attachment was so strong that both the people get attracted toward each other. 

Relation too Starts In Venus AD period in Mercury MD Period, As Both the planets including Moon are giving Subha Argala to the A7 Arudha placed in 9th house, Shows Stronger connection between both the people.

But Question here arises is how both have strong Karmic Bonding, 

In Female chart A7 too placed in 9th house of higher house of an Educational institution and also be the Vimshottari Dasha lord too. 

Further Venus and Mercury are also placed in 7th house In female chart giving rashi Drishti to the A7 Arudha, other than Saturn also placed in Scorpio sign aspecting to Sign and planet placed in A7 Arudha which is luckily to be placed in 9th house of higher education and deep wisdom, further shows Stronger influence of Saturn, Venusian  and Mercurian trait in Partner (Artist or Musician, Hard work, Having Deep interest (Saturn in Scorpio) in occult etc).

Moreover Venus, Mercury and Mars also giving Subha Argala to the Moon having A7 Arudha in it – Again shows including Mercury, Venus and Mars  dashas are also stronger contender for starting of relation in Vimsottari MD of Moon in Venus AD period.

Same thing is Clearly seen in K.N Rao Chara Dasha where period from 2003 April to 2013 April Showing Dasha can give relations to Her, Whereas scorpio Dasha ( Saturn ) is falling in 8th from the A7 and 2nd from the AL Arudha Shows – this dasha can give love relations those can be very much fatalistic or marak  in nature for the Girl life too and can give downfall via those relations too. 

Further it can be seen from Natal chart placement too, 5th/8th lord Jupiter is placed in 8th house with 7th lord Rahu and Lagnesh Sun – Relations are fatalistic for Girl Life and health.

In Deeper reality A7 is also placed in Badhak Sthan too, which means moon is acting as Bhadak too. 

This actually Happened, Exactly in Moon MD, Venus AD and Mars PD, Vimshottari period relation started in the Chara Dasha of Taurus (Mars placed there), falling in  2nd from A7 Arudha.    

Both the Girl and Boy Shares Same Retrograde AK (Saturn), 7th lord of Girl Saturn is Ak as well retrograde placed in 4th house in the sign of Scorpio aspecting the Lagna , that further shows Past birth Karmic bond and pending relation from the early life with having deep and stronger desire to meet each other. This Was actually the first reason both the people was deeply involved in the relation. 

Irony was only that, both the Ak are saturn showing a deep desire and lesson via relationships but also shows Karmic bond from past birth and link of debt and bondage that Boy  and girl has to pay in any case, as Saturn is placed in 8th house of the natal chart in male chart and in female chart Saturn is placed in 4th house, falling in 2nd( Health Sufferings- 6th lord – Diseases and Sufferings due to past deeds) from the AL .

Girl Lagana is falling in the 7th house of the native, having aspect from (Graha Drishti) Mercury and Rashi Drishti of Venus and Jupiter. Boy Lagana is falling in the 7th house  of the girl chart where Mercury and Venus is there and same Mercury is placed in the Boy Lagana – again shows Stronger infatuation, attraction and Liking toward each other. Again shows Karmic link between two people.

Sign of the A7 Arudha of girl chart is falling in the Boy 7th house from Al, A7 Arudha of Boy is falling in the AL of the Girl – again shows stronger attraction between two people other than Soul and Karmic Bonding between.

End of this karmic bond was very ironical, as girl died at the age of 23 by Brain Tumor and with some unknown psychological reasons ,that is clearly seen from her chart. 

Irony started in Mars MD period (Bhadkesha), aspected by 6th Lord Saturn falling in 2nd from A7 and 8th from the AL- that shows the fateful and fatal end of the girl life due to immense pain, health sufferings and sorrow (Lagnesh in 8th house with Rahu). 

Same thing is seen from the Boy chart too – Venus was Bhadkesha as well as A7 and UL lord placed in 12th house in both D1 and D9- Maturity into serious relationship of Marriage was impossible in this case and it was definitely lead into fateful end, whereas Rahu is falling in 2nd from the UL clearly shows that , also Dispositor lord of venus, Saturn was closely conjugated in the 8th house with Mars clearly shows the sorrowful end in relationship.

In D9 Chart of Male, Bhadkesha   lord Venus was conjugated with Rahu too shows the cause of separation and sorrow in relationship, falling in 9th from the Karakamsa and placed in the 12th house of D9 chart.

I Hope this way people can help and understand their Karmic bonds and this will definitely be a reference article for their karmic sufferings, Pain and delays and to further explore their Runanubandham relations.  

With thanks and Regards,
Rakesh Singh Jamwal

Source and Reference:

Art of Living- Gyan Dhara. ( Sri Sri Ravi Shankar ji)
http://isha.sadhguru.org
Karama and Memory : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zO8QzMWZbN4
Jaimini Sutras by Sanjay Rath

Karma and Rebirth By Kn Rao

RinanubandhanTheory part 1: Understanding Karmic, Soulmates and Twin flame relations


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The Deeper Concept of Rnanubandha and Karmic Relations 
Introduction

First of all you need to understand what is karama and what are karmic relationships and how both are interlinked with  Debt of pasts. That shows reason for those seeds and how are they interrelated to the Past births Karmic actions, as said below Karama is neither a punishment nor a treat its just a way to know about yourself and unfulfilled desires those are keep revolving from past birth cosmic cycles. For understanding Karmic Cycle one need to understand the essence of Karama from Bhagwad Gita.

Story Begins:

During the Mahabharta war, Bhishma knew very well that even he was with the Kauravas; but it was only his body and not his heart that was with them. 

So he said to Yudhishthira

“My son, Duryodhana was doomed when he brushed aside Krishna’s advice; your victory was assured. During the war, Place Shikhandi before me and I shall throw down my bow and arrows. I shall not fight.”

Now Question arises Why Shikhandi ??

“Bhishma knew that Shikhandi was none other than Amba whom he had refused to marry in past life. She wanted vengeance from him. Later She then meditated on to Lord Shiva; she wanted a boon that she would kill Bhishma. Lord Shiva granted her the boon; she was born again to kill Bhishma but he refused to consider Shikhandi as a man and would not fight with him.”

This again shows Karmic links always come forward to us in any form either in vengeance or in love, or hatred and many a times it comes as sufferings too, one has to pay his karmic debt in the form of Runanubandham (Karmic Relation with them).  

Further, During the end of Kurukshetra War, when Bhishma was lying down pierced by thousand arrows of Arjuna, Bhishma explained to Arjuna about the Past life as follows:

“O Pandavas! Everything is result of our deeds in past life. Without sowing seeds, plants never sprout. Similarly, good or bad deeds done in past life give good and bad results in the present life. By making charities in past life, one gets enormous wealth in present life without any effort.  

Tapas made in past life yields pleasures in present life. 

Service done to elders and gurus in past life results in acquiring knowledge and intelligence without studying under any guru. If one observes non violence in past life then that person lives for long age in present life. 

Therefore, Sadhu / Saintly people always observe nonviolence, make charities, regard gurus, serve elders and guests etc. Then only they enjoy pleasures in next life. So it’s all about doing Good or Bad Karmas in past life that one get a good or bad result in present life.”

(Mahabharta,  Bhishma Parva,chapters 43 – 124)

Moral of the Story:


Its the Karama that become the reason of this birth, after accumulating new karamas it leads to the basis of your next birth. After the death, soul of a person gathers all accumulated karamas from current one like a reservoir in that person’s mind. Later Divinity or God as per the divine Karmic law takes a handful of those Karmas and further it leads to a new karmic seed in the form of body. 

So if a person has done good Karmas with those individual people, he/she might gets a good godly body in heavens first and then further they takes birth in a same learned, Religious and dutiful families, forms Close association with those family members in as a brother, sister, mother or father as a part of Karmic Rina, those having done good karama with that soul, during this whole process they enjoys relations with them. 

If he/she has done bad karmas in past life then that person’s soul further goes to lower wombs of birds and animals.After moving through those lower Varnas, exhausting bad karmic seeds Soul further takes birth in those families having bad pending karmic deeds with them to further clear off debts in the form of karmic relations.This way process of Birth and death in the karmic relations keep going on unless and until karmas neutralises into zero.

Below are verses of Bhagwat Gita further justifies the Laws of Karama and connection with the Rnanubandhan Theory:

“sariram yad avapnoti yac chapy utkramatishvarah grhitvaitani samyati vayur gandhan ivasayat” 
(Bhagwat Gita: Chapter Fifteen verse 8)

“Sri Krishna said: O Arjuna, As the wind carries away odours from their seat, even so the Jivatma (soul), the lord of the body, snatching these (the mind & the senses) from the body, which it casts off, migrates into the body, which it acquires.

“yada sattve pravrddhe tu pralayam yati deha-bhrt
tadottama-vidam lokan amalan pratipadyate”

(Bhagwat Gita: Chapter Fourteen verse 14)

“Sri Krishna said: O Arjuna, When one dies in the mode of goodness, he attains to the pure higher planets of the great sages.”

“rajasi pralayam gatva karma-sangisu jayate
tatha pralinas tamasi mudha-yonisu jayate”

(Bhagwat Gita: Chapter Fourteen verse 15)

“Sri Krishna said: O Arjuna, When one dies in the mode of passion, he takes birth among those engaged in fruit producing activities (i.e. as a man or woman on earth); and when one dies in the mode of ignorance, he takes birth in the bird & animal kingdom.”

This shows that its Karamic debts which become the seed of our many births we take in any given life cycle.

If we See further Definition of Karmic action, Below mentioned quotes are well justifying the theory:

Karma has been a pop culture term for ages. But really, what the heck is it?Karma is not an inviolate engine of cosmic punishment. Rather, it is a neutral sequence of acts, results, and consequences. 

Receiving misfortune does not necessarily indicate that one has committed evil. But it is a sufficient indicator of something else. 

And that something else can be anything, as long as it is a logical consequence of what has come before.  

Consider: if you fall into a well, you are not a bad person who deserves to suffer—you are merely someone who took a wrong step. Or someone who had one drink too many. Or got a head rush due to poor circulation. Or forgot to wear your glasses. Or— 

The reasons are plentiful, and all plausible. But the chain of cause and effect goes way, way back into the deepest hoariest recesses of your personal past.So never rule out retribution. But never expect it.” 

by Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration
When you seek questions those are unfulfilled and having no clue from anywhere, that simply indicates those are nothing but are deep rooted lessons of past karmic actions.

“If you want to know the answer to ‘Who am I?’, then you will have to go to a Gnani purush [the enlightened one]. The Gnani Purush will give you Knowledge of your real Self [Who Am I] in the presence of the egoism. Thereafter your accounts (karmic) will be settled [& things will start falling in place].If the ‘effect’ is experienced, [karmic] bondage is created. If one experiences the ‘effects’ alone by himself, the [karmic] bondage will not be sticky. If he involves another person in it, the karmic bondage will be sticky.”  

― Dada Bhagwan

Definition from the The Padma Puran

“Runanubhanda Rupena Pashu Patni Suta Aalaya Runakshaye Kshyayaanthi Tatra Parivedana.”

(Padama Puran)

Meaning: Every Relations are the result of previous birth bondage. Once the debt is annihilated there is no relationship and hence end of suffering in this Samsara.


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 Hypothesis Says: 

It’s not easy to understand what are karmic relationships which bound us from many years or why we are just stick to them from our childhoods days with many of people we interact, share, love and responds them in a unique way. The best way to understand Karmic bondage’s is to just keep silent and understand them and ask millions of questions to your soul itself.

In Layman language, A karmic relationship is a deep rooted karmic actions based romantic bond that is formed with someone whom you feel connected always and somehow you thinks you are made for and most probably it might be belong from your soul group categories in order to repent, heal past life lessons and pain a soul is going through from many years. 

Karmic relationships are the type of category that looks like a soulmate type bond that no one wants in a direct way, but ultimately everyone will get it in karmic cycle of this birth. These bonds are difficult to understand and are emotionally very taxing, sometime it takes shapes of abusive and verbal conflicts, and most important it has controlling and manipulative nature in sense.


There is no way to get out from such karmic bonds until and unless soul deeply learn his karmic lessons those are pending from this birth system meanwhile they keep moving in a cosmic cycle for years to understand each other. The only way to heal and understand a karmic relationship is when one or the other person try to understand its spiritual background of relations and take a decision to steps out of the karmic cycle and grows spiritually.

For ending a karmic relation, someone need to become stronger, broader and he has to be think deeper meaning of life and grow himself spiritually. When any one from the karmic relation decides to walks away from the bond completely – either via physically and energetically – the relationship will be over.

To fully understand and heal a karmic relationship, you need to think much time to self realize or evaluate within yourself, look within yourself to fully understand the process of whole bond i.e  the lessons, the relationship has taught you before you decided to move over for the next relationship.

Is it a Chain of Karmic Relations or Really True Soul Mate exist : The Seed of Karmic Lessons

If you directly jump into a new relationship immediately without even realising, repenting or self evaluating the  whole situation of bond without understanding the pattern of relationship, things will keep repeating themselves again and again in any new relationship because the deep rooted issues have not been fully healed and realised yet. 

Decision to Jumping again into a new relationship too soon after ending the last karmic bond will again reopen the aspects of the pattern cycle of karmic sufferings. The whole essence  in a karmic bond in any karmic suffering is to realise the mistake you are keep doing in past relationships. You must need to give the time and wounds created by all the relationship and the time they need to teach and heal you.


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Once you have learned the karmic lessons and patterns of keep falling in multiple relationships and you had tried to broken down this pattern via growing spiritually, at the end you will be free from all of your patterns in a one way go and you will a free bird for forever where there will be no pending karma is in your basket . Even This cycle will be complete itself for the other person too, on it’s own, without involving in any participation from you.If you have tried himself to fully heal the lessons within yourself, in any life you will be free from all the pending past karmic relations.
The only way to meet true love soulmates will only be possible after the final ending realisation and breaking the pattern of karmas, learning, suffering and after healing the a karmic bond reason being karmic relationship comes up in our life to show us the guilt, repent and the unhealed pain we are carrying from many births. 

When you heal the pain you carry with your karmic cycle, you will be open to experiencing the true love mate you truly deserve in this life cycle.

Does Astrology Has Answer ? The Investigation

Astrologically, we can understand those karmic bonds but not in an easy lay man language via what we are studying from classical scriptures but yes there are many tools and system to understand ” runanubandham” concept or Karmic relations between two people via Jamini and Nadi systems.I have tried to explain the concept of karmic relationships and Runanubandha concept from many of jamini sutras and what i have observed from past many years in many different charts. but first of all we need to understand the basic concept, what actually is Runanubandha or Karmic debit of two people or the people we interact with them.



What are Soul mates, are they different then Karmic Relations ?

Well spiritually a Soul Mate can be any of relation that has any place in your life, it can be your family member or can be your friend too or love mate too. These are special purpose  souls that come into our lives for stronger reasons that has greater lessons and teachings are connected with it.

Every human being has categories of soul i.e Satvik, Tamasik or Rajasic etc and when we encounter any other such souls in our lives with following tatava in them,  it usually creates frictions like a two energy forces can create different, intriguing and challenging effects. Some souls will feels that they have known each other from another lifetimes, some might clash, and some might feels like they have never met such person’s  company ever.

Some of the souls those comes into our lives  help us growing love and wisdom in each other, while others help us in learning difficult life lessons or realising universal truths might be in harsh way or in true manner.

Each of those soul comes into our lives creates significant life transforming moments for a greater purpose.

Spiritually Soul Mates serve as mirrors of ourselves. What we see in another soul reflects our own soul.

When we are capable of seeing others souls as ‘mates’, (including our enemies), as members of our family that are there to teach us life lessons, then our whole perception and relation to other people changes entirely.

Now understand What is the deeper meaning of ” Runanubandha ” ?

We take birth in a family, we meet friends, we meet parents, we meet many partners, we indulge with them, we create further karmas and finally after doing many sins and karmic actions we fall in a good relationship or either  we feel like marriage is a burden to us, we feels that parents are not listening to us and we leave our parents and close friends circle and live in an isolation to repent those sufferings; question is why it so ??. Logic is very clear we carry our certain karmas and we exhaust some of them and those we left we took away with for our next birth, don’t you think- there is a deep mystery in this karmic cycle.


View of Sri Sri Ravishankar  on the concept of Rnanubandhan

” According to the law of Rnanubandhan as explained by Sri Sri Ravishanakr ji ,  we will meet different people in our life in the forms of mother, father, brothers, sisters, spouse, children etc. We take birth a family only because of undischarged debts of past lives we carry with them. Mathematically explained, at the same time we are creating accounts, debiting and crediting all those karmas with them. We indulge with them for creating numerous Karmic debts with all those with whom we interact.  Spiritually explained all the Karmic debts ( Rina ) lead to some sort of bondage or attachments ( bandhan ) with people we interact. If we look deeply according to Bhagwad Geeta principals, what it says about karmas is that all these Karmic attachments will try to pull us into the wheel of existence or you can say karmic or cosmic cycle again and again unless and until we will exhaust them.”

( Art of Living – Gyan Dhara – The Law of Karama: 
Runanubandha, Relationships, Astrology)

The True Definition: 

Rnanubandhan is actually the bond of past birth karmic actions that results from Karmic debts at the root of repeated lives we take in this cosmic cycle.

Numerous Karma which we are doing in day to day life is leading us in many “Rina” and this Rina further leads to Karma again. It is a two way cycle, If you have given or done something to somebody in some life, the memory of karmic actions will be stored in your Soul (Astral body) and all the memory will be attach with the soul. the person or the soul whom you had done something good or bad will be your debtor or creditor in this birth. 

If you had taken something in the past, it will be taken from you in any of birth you take, it could be this immediate birth or it could because of some of birth. If you had given good in the past it will be come back to you later somehow.

In Numerous birth we take, Astral body keep on  storing the memories, sufferings and happiness of all of runanubandham relations in countless births. 

Unless and until all the karma stored in the soul body is burnt away or exhausted by the physical  body, there is no point of liberation from birth cycle. Logically, we are memory of runanubandham of all the births, and the countless karmas we do  in any relationship reflects some sort of  runanubandha. 

Those we are having strong  bond or relations will be part of our strong runanubandham and they usually become our parents, spouse, children and close friends in this life.


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What Sadguru has Opinion on Rnanubandha

In Many of cases, what i have found people keep on falling on many sexual and physical intimate relationships with so many people and even they never feel or realised them what they are doing and later when karma plays its role in the form of sufferings in their close relations i.e marriage and children they try to repent or having strong guilt in their subconscious mind. question is why it is so.

According to the Rnanubandha theory explained in Karma and Memory,  Sadguru ji has clearly said  
” sexual relationships have maximum impact in our life in terms of the amount of memory or subconscious impression they leave in our mind as compared with any other kind of touch, or any substance you come in touch with it. In understanding Rnanubandhan  in true sense, it is actually the physical memory attached with the soul we carry from. This memory can be acquired due to blood relationships or any sexual relationships. 

according to sadguru ji, When it comes to sexual relationships, a woman’s body has much more memory and tolerance power to experience those pain and level of sufferings connected with that and it can lead to guilt or feeling of difference. 

When it comes to genetic material, a man’s body has much more memory. Generally, over eighteen to twenty-one years of age, a woman’s body carries less physical memory than a man’s body. The main reason why nature has done this is because a woman has to bear a child from a man who is not genetically connected with her. For her to carry the child to term, it is very important that her genetic memory is less. “

( Karma and Memory by Sadaguru ji)


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